you’re someone that is leading on, which can be not very reasonable
Let’s group back into the “we are searching for different things” excuse for perhaps not meeting some body once again. You should not be going on dates if you are not in a position to date someone right now. This really is a large disservice not just because you’re maybe not being honest to yourself and that which you want but you’re leading someone else on, that is not so reasonable and certainly will fundamentally harm someone’s feelings. Many of us are at various places in life and that is the honest truth and you'll find nothing incorrect with this. Me refer you to a wonderful tool called “Facebook” or any offerings at your local community center that can open up social doors for you if you’re not in a position to date someone right now and you’re looking for friends, let.